Goals and some beliefs
Goals
I want to make the world a little better in three ways:
- Grow as a person.
- Help my family and close friends grow.
- Create useful things.
Grow as a person
What this means to me:
- I am proud of the work I do.
- I share my thoughts and learn from others.
Help my family and close friends grow
What this means to me:
- Give everything for a mother.
- Be a wise older brother to my younger sibling.
- Build a dream life together with a wife.
The key question for this goal is: “If my funeral were held next week, who would attend and what would they say?”
Create useful things
What this means to me:
- Use creativity, knowledge, and communication to develop solutions to problems worth solving.
The key question for this goal is: “How much value am I creating for the world?”
Some beliefs
- You do no good to anyone by merely observing. Show up!
- Always keep your integrity and honesty, even when it costs you. Shortcuts are worthless, and falsehood is slowly revealed in the end.
- Status is fake and temporary. Focus on substance and on doing work that is worthwhile.
- Once in a while, set aside every concept you have read online and reason from experience and from what you have seen and done. (For example: What are the best decisions you have ever made? The worst? Why? Can you apply those lessons now?)
- Joy is often underrated. The best and most creative work grows from joy and enthusiasm. You can feel it in your body.
- Know your “triggers”: what turns you into the worst version of yourself.
- However bad things get, this too shall pass.
- There are people after whom you feel energised and ready to conquer the world or climb a mountain. They are rare, but they exist. Find them and befriend them.
- Doing as many activities as possible every day is a way of extending your life.
- Most intelligent people want status, prestige, wealth and the like, even those who claim they do not. “Genius” is a different category from intelligence: geniuses are motivated by entirely different things and are socially odd (and often self-centred) people.
- Later, you will miss this moment.
- “He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche